Have you ever faced this situation -
If you ask "Did you reach" after the person left from your place, then, the other thinks, why is this person intruding; while actually the person should think "Wow! This person is caring and cares about me" and feel great about it. The real intention is you care, you are not trying to spy this person. See the difference in thoughts and attitdue.
The person who do not understand who genuienly cares them are the big losers.
Tuesday, December 11, 2007
Sunday, December 2, 2007
LOVE and LIFE
I read -
"Love is the GOAL, Life is the journey .........
Life is like a pilgrimage, and unless love is attained, it remains a pilgrimage, never reaching anywhere."
Definition of LOVE differs from person to person.
"Love is the GOAL, Life is the journey .........
Life is like a pilgrimage, and unless love is attained, it remains a pilgrimage, never reaching anywhere."
Definition of LOVE differs from person to person.
Be Authentic
I read -
Truthfulness means authenticity - to be true, not to be false, not to use masks. Whatsoever is your real face, show it at whatever the cost.
To be authentic means to remain true to your own being. How to remain true? 3 things to be remembered:
1. Never listen to anybody, what they tell you to be. Always listen to your inner voice, what you would like to be; otherwise your whole life will be wasted.
Do not allow others to manipulate and control you.
2. Never wear a mask. Be true whatsoever the cost.
If you are angry, be angry. It is risky, but dont smile because that is being untrue. You have been taught that when you are angry, smile, but then your smile becomes false a mask - just an excercie of the lips and nothing else. The heart full of anger, poison, and the lips smiling; you become a false phenomenon. Then, when you really want to smile you cannot.
When you want to be angry, be angry. Nothing is wrong in being angry. If you want to laugh, laugh. Nothing is wrong in laughing loudly.
3. Always remain in present because all falseness enter either from the past of from the future.
That which has passed has passed. Dont bother about it and dont carry it as a burden; otherwise it will not allow you to be authentic to the present. Dont unnecessarily be bothered about the future, otherwise that will come into the present and destroy it."
Truthfulness means authenticity - to be true, not to be false, not to use masks. Whatsoever is your real face, show it at whatever the cost.
To be authentic means to remain true to your own being. How to remain true? 3 things to be remembered:
1. Never listen to anybody, what they tell you to be. Always listen to your inner voice, what you would like to be; otherwise your whole life will be wasted.
Do not allow others to manipulate and control you.
2. Never wear a mask. Be true whatsoever the cost.
If you are angry, be angry. It is risky, but dont smile because that is being untrue. You have been taught that when you are angry, smile, but then your smile becomes false a mask - just an excercie of the lips and nothing else. The heart full of anger, poison, and the lips smiling; you become a false phenomenon. Then, when you really want to smile you cannot.
When you want to be angry, be angry. Nothing is wrong in being angry. If you want to laugh, laugh. Nothing is wrong in laughing loudly.
3. Always remain in present because all falseness enter either from the past of from the future.
That which has passed has passed. Dont bother about it and dont carry it as a burden; otherwise it will not allow you to be authentic to the present. Dont unnecessarily be bothered about the future, otherwise that will come into the present and destroy it."
INTIMACY
I read -
"Hit-and-run relationships have become more common in a society like ours that has grown more rootless, less tied to traditional structures, and more accepting of casual sex. But at the same time there arises an undercurrent of feeling that something is missing - a QUALITY of INTIMACY.
This quality is very little to do with the physical. Far more important to intimacy is a willingness to expose our deepest feelings and vulnerabilities, with the trust that the other person will treat these with care."
How true. Everyone is afraid to be truely intimate. It is really scary to wear-off the mask that is been carried over for years.
Think about it.
"Hit-and-run relationships have become more common in a society like ours that has grown more rootless, less tied to traditional structures, and more accepting of casual sex. But at the same time there arises an undercurrent of feeling that something is missing - a QUALITY of INTIMACY.
This quality is very little to do with the physical. Far more important to intimacy is a willingness to expose our deepest feelings and vulnerabilities, with the trust that the other person will treat these with care."
How true. Everyone is afraid to be truely intimate. It is really scary to wear-off the mask that is been carried over for years.
Think about it.
Tuesday, September 25, 2007
Tuesday, September 18, 2007
7 Surprising Keys to Happiness
Extract from "Meditation" Blog
1. Go for a walk.
2. Listen to some quality music.
3. Think of others less fortunate.
4. Read something radical!
5. Laughing at laughter.
6. Simple breathing meditation.
7. Doodling just for fun!
To really practice/achieve each of these - visit 7 Surprising Keys to Happiness
1. Go for a walk.
2. Listen to some quality music.
3. Think of others less fortunate.
4. Read something radical!
5. Laughing at laughter.
6. Simple breathing meditation.
7. Doodling just for fun!
To really practice/achieve each of these - visit 7 Surprising Keys to Happiness
GOMA CITY
Goma is a city of 160,000 in the eastern Democratic Republic of the Congo. Goma neighbors the active Nyiragongo Volcano directly to its north, and hugs the coast of Lake Kivu to its south.
More info @ http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Goma
More info @ http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Goma
Even the greatest of loves ...
"Without expression," Sternberg warns, "even the greatest of loves can die" (1987, p.341)
so, be expressive ...
more -> http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Triangular_theory_of_love
Responsibility
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• If we want peace
– we have responsibility to be peaceful
• If we want clean world
– we have responsibility to keep the world clean!
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